Help wit my girl

[ICECREAMAN]

:sad: :smt022 :smt011 :smt011 My niggaz. I really need help right now. I posted the last 1 bout my relationship and only 1 person helped me but it wasnt good help. I go wit this girl at school but she wants to keep this relationship on the low. So its like inside school I be feelin real bad cause we dont talk that much but outside school I cant talk to her that much either. It was all good in the beginning cause weve been spending time a lot outside school everyday. Now she havin problems at home and I cant spend time with her that muchand I cant call her. Sometimes I think bout these crazy thoughts like she doin me wrong. Can somebody help me or relate to what I'm going through please!

[mixmaster435]

first of all why she wan keep it on the down low?

[keenan curtis]

Man what I would suggest is everything you tellin us... tell her. Just keep it real wit her no matter how lame it sounds. Make her feel comfortable enough to say what is on her mind and what her motives are in this relationship(basically why she wanna be on the low). Once you find out, this is where ya either make a compromise to make thangs work or let her go ya feel?

[RONEZZY]

do exact what keenen said shyt i use to be in the same shit but see i didnt ask my friends i asked my pops he told me tell her everything on my mind because one way or another its going to comeout he also said whats the worst that can happen he also said if your a REAL MAN you should have no problems making changes so just tell her about your troubles say cuzz youll feel good about yo self like conffindence

[ICECREAMAN]

:smt050 Thanks yall Ima do that and the reason why she want it on the low cause she dont want her friends and other people in our business but we dont have to tell people bout us.
But this is the onlything that ruins the relationship. And her X is a stalker!!!
Man ya'll dont know how bad I wanna beat his ass:smt075 :smt062 ! But at school we dont talk like that and sometimes it make me have bad thoughts like do she like anotha nigga?The last dude on the last forum said I should dump her.What yall think bout that? But we love each other. I wish it was a relationship helper on here.But thanks my nigs.But I need some more help from anybody on here.

[mixmaster435]

ma nigga..i don't suggest fighting her x if he just stalkin only if da nigga literally put his hands on ya gurl...cuz fightin n school aint worth it..but u cant think like dat..."what if she like another nigga"..cuz den yall don't have trust..and u neva know..she could b thinkin da same about you..but dass really all i can say..just do u n good luck homie

[ICECREAMAN]

:rolleyes: Thanks man. I aint gon fight his hoe ass unless he do some real stupid shit cause he dont like me but he act like he do.But anyways U right, I gotta stop thinkin that my man.Thanks for opeanin my eyez!!!:smt119

[Superb]

Ey mayne, its too many girl out here for you to be simping over that one chick..
Why do she want to keep it on the low?? what you need to do is be straight up with , tell her how you feel. And if she don't get down with the plan then find some other breezies to mack too. Also make that that chick bring some goods to the table since she wants to keep it on the low. You are doing her a favor by keeping it on the low..break that pocket..

But in simple terms , dawg find you some other girls thats actong right.. I remeber when i was going through the same shit..But know when I look back, I was stupid. I should have macked some more hows to take the starting posititon and I should had benched the girl I wasnt spending time with.....

Plus, you know yaw relationship aint going to go anywhere..hell yaw will probably be broken up by the end of the year so you should be like fuck it....


LET THAT CHICK KNOW YOU GOT OPTIONS AND DONT NEED HER.. AND GET THIS BOOK BY TARIQ NASHEED TO POLISH UP YOUR MACKING SKILLS...

http://www.amazon.com/Art-Mackin-Tariq-Nasheed/dp/094839059X/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2/103-1059198-7296632?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1179629060&sr=8-2

[ICECREAMAN]

:smt104 :smt104 Thanks my nig,I think. But look, I know theres more girls and I know theres better out there but this girl is diffrent from the others(remember all girls aint da same)But Ima tryna stick to the 1 I'm wit and Im so tired of goin to 1 relationship to another over stupid shit and she is too. So we said hey,we aint gon break up over stuff like that. But are relationship aint bad,except for at school.
Me and her just gotta find a resolution. And damn my nig!!!:confused: I cant just say I got resolutions and I dont need her. That might just fuck up her feelings nigga,kinda harsh!But Ima hold on fosho we just gon have to have a long talk.THANKS:D

[Superb]

Mayne, dont ever think 1 girl is diffrenet from the rest.. Beleive me I been there before, It just means shes acting right in the meanwhile...

I'm 28 years old and my macking skills is strong and I know what girls think and how they act..I've been there before, thats why I was telling you not to sweat the chick You still in school and you are going to have many more girls before you settle down. i seriously doubt that relationship is going to stick.. Shit I don't know of any high school relations ships that sticked...

Just from the girl talking about she want the relationship on the low tells me

A. She doesn't respect you
B. She's creeping with someone else..
C. Shes embarassed by you...

man buy the book dawg. i swear it will put you up on game. tariq is infamous for this. Get the dvd too//

www.mackdvdlessons.com

If you got myspace go to his blog and post questions. Someone will answer you right away...http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=44823504&blogid=144498312&page=326

You can thank me later..lol

[Kamieb84]

Do your thing with ol girl just remeber you probaly a young dude 1 female aint worth all that stress take it from a older dude your gonna meet hella females in your life 1 aint worth you losing sleep. I mean tell her what up and if she cant respect that move around pimp for real. But you know, what on the other side of things if she wanna keep it on the low roll wit it just get you another thats proud to be seen wit you in school and see how she girl act then. Women are born jealous trust me and if she dont trip she aint worth your time anyway.

[Superb]

I co-sign that ..Best advice since he is still young... We already been down that road and know how it is...

[ICECREAMAN]

:confused: How old is yall niggaz!!! Man yall sound like yall in ya 40s or some shit Im only17. Yall must be thinkin Im 14 or 15!
And fosho I'm gon fix this relationship.Thanks allyall for helpin out. Yall made me fell better bout myself.:D

[Superb]

Its nothing that needs to be fixed.. You just need to be a man and get rid of that spaghetti back...lol

But I'm 29 years old

[ICECREAMAN]

:shock: :shock: Damn. Never mind U is old. U old enough to be my daddy and stuff but I'm not gon get rid of her.I'm gon still hold on. keep it easy old timer!!LOL:smt040 :smt040

[Superb]

:shock: :shock: Damn. Never mind U is old. U old enough to be my daddy and stuff but I'm not gon get rid of her.I'm gon still hold on. keep it easy old timer!!LOL:smt040 :smt040

mayne Im just putting you own to game. Dont get it twisted I stillkick it with 18 year olds..

You got to make that girl bring something to the table dawg..

How long have yaw being going out anyway.. A few months???

If she is breaking off some dough or goodies then keep but if not just say fuck it and make on more bitches..

But first sit down with and have a talk to see where she is coming from.....

Belive me man , I m saving you alot of troubles..
Meet me in the chat room

[ICECREAMAN]

;) Weve been together for a couple months.And me and her had jobs but we both broke.And she got goodies!:D but goodies and dough dont actually matter to me that much.U can have the finest girl in the world and she got a bad personality or U could have the uglyiest girl in the world and got the best personality. If U just want a girl wit goodies in your life, U might as well want a flipper. I dont want a flipper, I want to get serious. We just gotta work things out like a real relationship will do it. But I'm just gon be a man and talk to her like the rest of yall said. THIS IS NOT WORTH BREAK UP OVER. Oh and how does the chat room work.

[Superb]

I feel you. Do your thing, but don't be a sucka for love

[ICECREAMAN]

:smt066 I got ya my nig.

[Kamieb84]

Fasho dont be a sucke for love and my nig im 22 been in your shoes a bunch of times trust me at your young age you gon she thousands of females if she dont wanna act right and you cant deal with it then roll but if you can deal with go right ahead but dont end up mad at your self at the end

[KevyKev388]

Dog you mentioned earlier that she want it on the low cuz she don't want all her friends in ya'll business. See thats some childish immature type ish. If she so worried about "friends" then yeah I'd go ahead and dump er. Cuz if ya'll WEREN'T on the low, then her "friends" would run yall relationship and she know that. SO yeah like da otha niggas said....man loose her and keep it movin. OR just keep er and get chu anotha female that'll do you right.....can't call it cheatin cuz it aint like you and ya first girl is worth anything, anyway! Feel me?!? Can't talk to er AT or OUTSIDE of school. Cant even call da chic?!? Man you cant call her "yo gurl"!

[keenan curtis]

Hey I been just postin up and listening to what everybody has to say. There is always two sides to a story so I agree with both sides. You kind of remind me of me in a sense and from the sounds of it this girl is worth the hassle. Some are not but you are certain and that's good. You past the first test by taking peoples advice but still staying true to your heart. The best advice I can give you is not to take advice from ne-1. You basically asked everbody stuff that you already know the answer to. You just hopin to hear a miracle or somethin. This isn't everbody's case but true life: I recently got married to my wife and I have been with her since freshman year in high school. So i feel for you but the best relationships is the honest ones. And as far as keepin it on tha low I don't agree. I understand why but what don't kill you make you stronger. There should not be drama if you guys keep everbody out of your problems. You gotta want to flaunt what you got, and if she can't be proud to do that then she must not be that proud to be yo girl. Don't let her juice you so just put your cards out on the table if she's worth the hassle. And remember its you and her in the end (no one else)

[ICECREAMAN]

:smt109 Thanks man. Ima stay to my heart forreal. Me and my girl had a long talk.We keepin on the low til the end of the school year. We both cool wit the dission we made cause we get out in June 13 then next year people will know bout us. But all tha beef is over now between us.LOL.But thats my baby doe.Keenan Kurtis. Man how U do it? Since freashman year? U got kids yet? Thats what I call love my nig. Man U need to cherish her.But thanks man. U the only 1 I could relate to.:D

[keenan curtis]

Thanks for listenin my nigga I'm just glad it didn't go in one ear and out the other cuz I usually just don't share advice with anyone but I knew you really needed it so I dropped a quick insight on ya. Yea man I got a little girl on the way in august... Cant wait. Ima keep it real cuz thats the only way I know how. Me and wifey been through some shit. I mean so much that a nigga thought he had non stop diarrea ya dig. But ne way, I never knew we would get this far but wouldnt trade it for the world... Its kinda like that Marcus Houstin song. "If it comes back then thats how you know..." All I can say is you gone go through some shit takin it from a nigga that been through it but just stay patient and always look at the big picture never whats at the moment cuz thats what screws you up, be patient, always communicate, and most importantly take one day at a time. You will be coo though. Good luck my dude.

[ICECREAMAN]

:smt089 Alright my man.(sniff)(sniff)LOL. keep it cool doe wit U and ya family.:D

[Superb]

:smt109 Thanks man. Ima stay to my heart forreal. Me and my girl had a long talk.We keepin on the low til the end of the school year. We both cool wit the dission we made cause we get out in June 13 then next year people will know bout us. But all tha beef is over now between us.LOL.But thats my baby doe.Keenan Kurtis. Man how U do it? Since freashman year? U got kids yet? Thats what I call love my nig. Man U need to cherish her.But thanks man. U the only 1 I could relate to.:D

Mayne, that girl is going to dump you at the end of the school year... Is she going to college? Is you going to college?

Cuz, it looks like she fucking someone else and trying to see if the grass is greener on the on other side..Keep an eye on her dawg because something dont sound right.. I aint evea heard of keeping a relationship on the low.


Dont get pussy whipped my nig

[ICECREAMAN]

:confused: My nigga look. U have a way different opinion then me.She aint fuckin no 1 else and I know that for a fact.And why the fuck U tryna jinx me bout my relationship with her?She aint gon dump me.Shit U didnt even hear what Keenan Curtis said.
But me and her got this on lock. We talked bout everything already.NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT!!!!!
All I know is that we love each other and we plannin to do the same thing Keenan did.Maybe U had bad expirerences with girls in the pass so U think every girl or woman is a bitch or hoe.But man I gotta stick to my heart.;) And we only live 3 blocks away and spend a lot of time together now so how is she fuckin some 1 else?
TRUST. Thats what we got . Hit me back....:smt023

[Superb]

Alright nigga do you thang.. You going to learn the hard way though. But good luck..

[RAY350]

dawg you getting played

[ICECREAMAN]

:mad: I Aint gettin played my nigga. I got this on lock. No BS.
All the bad stuff I said is not happening any more.